World always be full with norms.
Wherever you live, whatever you do; there are always norms or rules as guidance. That couldn’t be a problem as long as people and or living things take better places than any of those norms.
Example:
"In the east, divorce sometime not acceptable, or seem not as good as the one who maintain the marriage - for any reasons. Even if the marriage can’t made each of the couple happy, and for reasons they have considered together within enough time (years); those still couldn’t be accepted.
If couples are celebrities, media (entertainment), as information basis, often create news that only attracts curiosity but not worth to read. True or false, fact or gossip; those are not important since that fulfill their (publishers and readers) deeds."
Our perceptions often (if not always) take control of our judgment about good or bad, without even truly considering what the facts.
If you think this only happen rarely and or for several people; you should aware more.
How many people want their child to be as good as their image?
How many people want their job to be as good as they thought not base on the fact they have right now?
How many people made an excuse for bother their children because of money or job?
Even a bird could live in harmony without a cent in its pocket (if any :-)) and without a norm it knows. Even a river still flow without even we make a norm to control it. Even a rain still drop without even we make an effort to make it happen.
So, please be more HUMAN and live in HARMONY with contentment.